The Hardest Job You'll Ever Love

September was a whirlwind! I'm currently sitting at Pension Natividad, having just completed our Close of Service Conference. Ryan and I have left our site for good. It's unreal. I want to apologize in advance if this blog is all over the place, but that's how I feel right now.
I can't believe this time has come. It was SUPER hard to leave site. Intensely harder than I could ever had imagined. First, the entire month of September was crazy. We were so busy. Trying to pack, hang out with everyone for the last time, going to despsdidas (going-away parties), giving our things away, working on grad school applications, and on top of all of it we were asked to help with so many things so that people could get in their last American presentation. But despite all the craziness I absolutely loved it. I loved spending quality time with people from my community. I loved helping out one last time in any way I could. I loved seeing all the happy faces when we gave them "rememberances." I loved that several of the neighborhood kids wouldn't leave our house because they knew we were leaving. I loved that people came by our house to say their final goodbyes. I loved all the love that we received. It really is the hardest job you'll ever love.
So now I'm at pension in Manila trying to keep it together. We're leaving tomorrow to head up north to Sagada again for one week. We will then come back down to Manila to finalize all our paperwork and finish being volunteers. INSANE!!!! Then it's traveling time :) I'm super excited to travel and to finally get home to see family and friends, but right now I can't get past leaving my Filipino home and all my family and friends here. I'm going to forever cherish all the happiness and struggles from the Philippines and hopefully return one day :)

Apo Island

Apo Island has a special place in my heart. It is an island located off the coast of Dumaguete, Negros Oriental. We have been able to visit this special island three times.

Ariel view of Apo Island
The reason this place is so special to me is because of the sea turtles known as "Pawikan" in Visayan. I absolutely LOVE sea turtles. I can't even begin to describe how majestic they are. They are so graceful and an absolute joy to watch under the water. Apo is known for having turtles hanging out as long as the weather is good. Ryan and I were able to make it back to Apo Island this past weekend for the last time before we leave :( We were lucky and had an awesome day of sunshine, incredible visibility, and that means we got to swim with the turtles!! Ryan got to diving for the first time at Apo and he loved it. I went snorkeling and was infatuated with the Pawikan. I saw two different kinds of turtles on this trip, brown and grey, and was wishing I had an underwater camera. And I believe that I saw around a total of 12 turtles, small to big. It's insane how close you get to the turtles. Your snorkeling in beautiful water with indescribable corals and then all of a sudden you see a turtle floating along. You race towards it and follow it as long as it will let you. Some of the water is so shallow that you worry you will kick the turtle by accident. (But of course you don't!) I got to watch some of them eat, which was cool, and then swim with them, which is my favorite. It's so out-of-this-world when you can swim with a turtle, watch it take a breath up above, and see it dive back down again. Oh, it's awesome! I don't think I will every get tired of it :) So I wanted to share a few photos with you of our recent experience. (Some of these pics are borrowed from the internet) Enjoy! :)

A brown turtle at Apo Island
On our way to Apo Island
Can you see the corals? 
Hanging out with great company :) 
Oh so beautiful! 


The joys of living in Asia

Hello everyone! So a while back Ryan and I were surfing the web and we found another promo! (A huge discount of flights through Cebu Pacific Air). We decided to grab the opportunity and we booked our flight to Bangkok, Thailand! So a few weeks back in July we made our journey to Thailand. We arrived in Bangkok around 9AM, so we decided to have a day of sightseeing in Bangkok and then take a train to Ayutthaya for the night. When we first arrived in the airport we were super impressed. The airport was very nice, well organized, and had awesome public transportation options. We took the train from the airport into town and then took the subway to the train station.

One the train into Bangkok

Holding my token to get onto the subway
Once we arrived at the subway we found out we didn't need to buy our train tickets right away, so we checked our bags at the luggage counter and headed off to see Bangkok. While in route to see Wat Pho we ran into Mr. Cha. We had an amazing lunch and a great time with him exploring the temple of Wat Pho. Unfortunately Ryan and I started to feel a little under the weather so we parted ways and headed to the train station to catch a train to Ayutthaya. 

Reclining Buddha at Wat Pho

We got our tickets to Ayutthaya and noticed that we didn't have a seat number, and the ticket was REALLY cheap. So we asked about this and didn't really get an answer. So when it was time to get on the train we went into one of the cars and sat down at some empty seats. Well come to find out we had standing only tickets, but the lady who's seat we were taking, would not hear of us standing so she let us have her seat. (She took this man's seat and made him stand.) We tried to tell her it was ok, but no one would take our spots. We rode, about an hour and a half, on the third class train. It was a great experience. We got to meet tons of locals and see how they experience the trains. 

The isle of the 3rd class train
We made it to Ayutthaya, went to a night market for dinner, and had another awesome meal. I tell you what the Thai's KNOW how to cook. They have similar ingredients as Filipinos, but I LOVE the outcome of Thai food! The next day we went temple hopping and enjoyed comparing Thai temples to Cambodian temples. We rented bikes and also had a lot of fun riding those around. And of course we ate great food! 

One of the many temples at Ayutthaya


After exploring Ayutthaya, we took a night train to Chiang Mai. Ryan and I arrived a little early to the train station and then the train ended up arriving late, but one of the guards made sure we knew he was watching out for us. (Thai people are also very hospitable and nice) So once we finally got on the train a few funny things happened. First we were trying to put our bags up on the luggage racks without smacking anyone in the face, and when Ryan finally sat down some of our fruit rolled out of our bag and onto to the floor somewhere. Well the passengers across the isle from us (a grandmother and her granddaughter) were cracking up at us. We were very entertaining to them. You can imagine these two white people trying to get situated and not really knowing what they were doing, I would have laughed at us too! So Ryan sits down and we start to look for the fruit. (It was a mangosteen and if you have ever eaten mangosteen you can understand why we wanted it back; they are out of this world delicious!!) Our neighbors start to look around too, but are confused at what we are looking for. We finally spot it under the guy's feet in front of us. So Ryan stands up and reaches under his feet for the fruit. Well this had everyone cracking up and saying "ahhhh". Needless to say it was an amusing ride :) 

Our neighbors :) 
We arrived in Chiang Mai early morning and decided to walk the 2K to the hotel. Once we arrived we thought we were in heaven. Our room was nice with an excellent a/c. We had hot water and a very relaxing atmosphere. The two of us had not been feeling so well so we decided to take it easy and rest for a while. We had several days in Chiang Mai and we enjoyed it throughly. We went sightseeing, walking around the town, talked with several monks, practiced meditation, got several messages, and of course ate some AMAZING food. Now we didn't eat Thai the whole time, although we could have. We decided one day to try this place called Heavenly burritos. Man that was the right choice. At that moment Ryan and I realized how much we missed Texas and good mexican food. 

Yummy!!! 
We also took a cooking class while we were in Chiang Mai. This was a blast! We booked this through our hotel and it turned out that Ryan and I were the only ones in the class!! We had a total of four people helping us prepare our meals (one chef and one interpreter). We each made three dishes and then had the wonderful pleasure of it eating them afterwards. It was a lot of fun and I hope we can duplicate the meals once we get home :) 


We were also able to visit a tiger park while in Chiang Mai. Ryan and I were a little skeptical of this place before going, but once we were there we really enjoyed ourselves. We got to play with the baby, small, and large tigers. I really loved it and wish I could have a tiger, haha!! Although they are dangerous animals, they are just big cats and it was fun to be able to see them on such a personal level. The trainers seemed to love their jobs and the tigers seemed very well cared for. If they had been out in the wild poachers would hunt them down. So a park like this gives them a chance to survive and live a long life. We could have a long discussion about the pros and cons of a place like this, but all in all we had a great time! :) 


Our trip to Thailand was a huge success. I know lots of people say Thailand is too touristy now, but Ryan and I did our best to do things on our own and stay out of the tourist traps. We had an awesome time and would recommend Thailand to anyone! :) Until next time...










June and July

So it's summer time in America, but for me in the Philippines summer is ending and school is starting again! School is back in full swing, which means I'm back to work. Since school started I was trying to decide what my project would be for the few months I have left at site. (Our official COS, close of service, date is Oct. 17th, 2012!) I really enjoyed my reading club last year, so I decided that I would continue working with those students. I decided to take a different approach though. Instead of working on their reading skills, I wanted to work on their listening and comprehension skills. To do this I went to the big city on our island, Tacloban, and bought a few small chapter books to read to the students. I found two of "The Littles" books, do you remember those? I loved them when I was younger and thought they would be fun to read with my 2nd year (13 yr. old) students. So far we have read a few chapters in the book and the students love it! I'm having them work on their imagination and comprehension skills by writing in a journal. I have had around 30-50 students each class, which is more than last year, so I'm thinking they really enjoy our "story time" (as they call it) :)

In June I also attended my last VAC meeting. It was strange knowing this would be my last time at this kind of meeting. This time we had our meeting at the US Embassy, which was a nice change and experience because I had never been inside the embassy. It was a really nice building and had a lot of history behind it. We were able to work out some issues and say our goodbye's as 269 VAC members. I was also able to buy a new camera while I was in Manila (Thanks mom and dad!), so I now I can take more pictures :)


At the end of June I was invited to join the department heads of my school in their trip to the Tacloban festival, Kasadayaan. Some of our students were preforming in the festival and they wanted me to experience this kind of festival. It was a great time. I got to bond with some of the teachers that I didn't know too well and also see our students preform. I thought the students did very well and wished that they would have placed higher, unfortunately they did not, but it was still a pleasant experience.



Ryan and I started up our puppet shows again. Man they are fun! It's so much fun seeing all the day care students reactions and how different each child reacts to the show. At one day care we had three eager little boys that couldn't get enough of the puppets. They couldn't contain themselves and kept running up to the front to touch the puppet and to try and figure out how all of this worked. We have also had a few students who start crying. These students have never experienced a puppet show before, so for some it's a scary thing. But other just can't stop laughing. They love when Kuya Philly laughs and when we teach them how to brush their teeth. They are even more excited when we let them try out the sea-life puppets. They enjoy being able to experience the puppets for themselves and trying to mimic our voices. Although it's exhausting, implementing these puppet shows have been one of my favorite things we have done at site!






July 4th- back home it's Independence Day, but in the Philippines it's Filipino-American Friendship Day, whew what a mouth full! So to celebrate I took some materials that my friend Tamra sent me to my classes. A while back Tamra sent me those plastic strings that you can make bracelets/keychains out of. Well I took those to my reading club and one of my classes and showed them how to make keychains. They loved it! They enjoyed learning the sometimes hard process and enjoyed showing off their finished products. They were also thrilled to celebrate this meaningful day together. Thanks Tamra!





As some of you know Ryan and I just got back from Thailand. We had an awesome time, but you will have to wait until the next blog to find out more... Take care, we love you all and miss you tons! Won't be too much longer now!!!

Cambodia!!!

So in case you didn't know Ryan and I, along with our friend Evelyn, went to Cambodia a few weeks back. We had an amazing time, but man was it HOT! It was hotter there, temperature wise, than in the Philippines, but it was more of a Texas hot. Don't know what Texas hot is? Well it is a dry hot that feels like it's sucking your breath away, not the sticky, humid, drenching in sweat, hot of the Philippines. Despite the heat we had a blast! Haha. We flew into Siem Reap from Manila and were immediately impressed with the airport, so we had a feeling we were really going to like this place.

Posing by a statue in the airport
The next few days we headed out to the Angkor Wat Temple Complex and had an incredible time. Angkor Wat was impressive, don't get me wrong, but it wasn't my favorite temple. Although I did really enjoy looking at the Bas-Reliefs along this temple.

One of the many Bas-Reliefs at Angkor Wat
I think my favorite temples would have to be within the complex of Angkor Thom. Here are a few of my favorites:

At the top of Baksei Chamkrong
Bayon Temple
Ryan and I at Ta Prohm
While we were temple hopping, we had fun trying to learn some Cambodian words with our Tuk-tuk driver. Cambodians don't speak English as well as Filipinos, so sometimes we had some very interesting conversations :) One in particular was when our tuk-tuk driver was trying to teach us to say yes. First we didn't know what he was trying to teach us and men and women say different words for yes. So this is what our conversation would have sounded like in English: "Yes" (driver pointing to Ryan), "Yes" (Trisha), "No" (driver), "Huh?" (Trisha), "Yes" (driver pointing to Trisha), "Yes" (Trisha), "Yes" (Ryan), "No" (Driver laughing and shaking his head), "What?" (Ryan and Trisha), "Yes" (driver), "Yes" (Ryan), "Yes" (Trisha) Haha! We did learn how to say yes (jaa for women and baat for men), thank you (aw kohn), and It's hot! (kat daw na -not sure if that's spelled right?)

We also ate some fabulous food, and tried a few new things. At one restaurant Evelyn ordered Kangaroo, which we all tried and it was delicious. We got to cook it ourselves on a little stir-fry thing with some spices and vegetables and it turned out great!

Evelyn cooking Kangaroo
We also had a few amazing ice cream shakes and tried several different Cambodian foods, which we all liked. We also got a few messages (Hey we were tired from all the temple hopping) and even tried the Dr. Fish message. I was super excited about this, but when it came time to do it I was a little hesitant. It tickled like crazy and felt really weird at the same time, but eventually I did do it and was glad I did :)

I finally stuck my feet in and couldn't stop laughing! 
After Siem Reap we headed down to Phnom Penh, the capital of Cambodia. We also had a great time here. We decided to have an emotionally hard day, where we visited the S-21 Prison museum and the Killing Fields. Even though it was a tough day we really enjoyed getting to learn about the Cambodian culture and things they have been through not too long ago. We also paid a visit to the Royal Palace and Silver Pagoda. These temples were impressive, but because of the time constraints it was a little crowded for us. Haha. We also stopped by the Peace Corps Office, got to meet a few of their PCVs and staff. It was a great visit!
Ryan and I at the Royal Palace
While in P.P. Ryan started feeling a little sick, so one morning Evelyn and I went out shopping and we were going to meet up with Ryan for lunch. I left him the address and told him we would meet him there. Well, guess what, the restaurant was closed, as in no longer there! So Evelyn and I were pacing up and down this street trying to run into Ryan when he came by. We were walking back to one of the corners to see if he was there, when all of a sudden we spotted him a couple hundred yards in front of us in a tuk-tuk. We started yelling his name and running towards the tuk-tuk. To no avail his tuk-tuk started taking off. We were thinking, we have to stop him. So while laughing we started running faster. When out of nowhere this tuk-tuk driver comes by and says "Get in we can catch him!" My friend then quickly says "how much" (because you know we don't want to get ripped off), we agree on a price and race off in this tuk-tuk after Ryan. We finally catch up to him and can't stop laughing. We all agreed that we could easily win Amazing Race! Afterwards we stopped by this Indian restaurant that had the BEST indian food I have ever had! It was so scrumptious! I had a popular dish from Afghanistan, and let me tell you if it wasn't sooooo dangerous I would want to visit there just for the food!!

Eating at the Flavors of India!  
Sadly, our trip had to come to an end. But we had a delightful time and really enjoyed our vacation to the lovely country of Cambodia!

April and May = SUMMER!!

So what do you think of when you hear the words Summer? Most people, especially if your in school, think it's time for a break, the heat, swimming, vacations, etc. My experience in the Peace Corps, thus far, has proven the summers to be the busiest time of the year. So if you have the time I will tell you a little bit of what my summer has been.


In April, Ryan and I finished out our puppet shows for this school year by hiking with some of his co-workers to Brgy. San Antonio. This is the farthest brgy. in our municipality. We had to take a multicab for two hours and then we had to hike for almost two hours to reach this brgy! But it was so fun and worth the hike :) While we were there we got to do our last puppet show for this school year, and it was probably one of the best. We had the whole brgy. (around 200 people) watching the show. Usually during performances, lectures, etc. there is lots of talking, but during ours you could hear a pin drop. It was so much fun and I think the audience really enjoyed it! (We will continue our puppet shows again once school starts up)

The hike sometimes proved to be quite difficult :) 

Ryan and "Ma'am Flower" talking about Washing Hands
After our hike to Brgy. San Antonio, we had a nice and relaxing Easter break back in one of our favorite places, Padre Burgos. Since Ryan is now dive certified he went out for a couple dives while I went snorkeling. It was great to get away, relax, eat good food, and soak in some sun. This is a picture where Ryan went diving and I went snorkeling; it's at an island called Limasawa Island. 


Shortly after Easter, Ryan, our friend Evelyn, and I went to CAMBODIA!!! But you will have to wait for the next blog to read about that trip :) 

A few days after Cambodia, I went back to our training site, Dumaguete to help with a massive 2-week teacher training. (*Side note: to get to Dumaguete I have to take a 5 hr. boat ride, a 3 hr. bus ride, another 45 min. boat ride, and finally an hour bus ride.) The training was great. I was in charge of teaching Microsoft Excel. Which was so much fun. A few years back a PCV made this amazing tutorial for people to learn how to use Excel. It was so much fun helping people, some of which have never used a computer before, learn how to use excel. Many of the computers in the computer lab were broken so teachers were having to share and take turns completing the tutorial, but they did an amazing job. 

Teachers sharing a computer to learn Excel

"Teacher Trisha" instructing teachers how to use the tutorial

Our group of facilitators for the training
But now I am finally home and have been able to relax for a while. Although I didn't completely escape Excel, haha. This week and next week I am holding another Excel training for Ryan's co-workers. Which is also turning out to be a lot of fun! I really enjoy teaching something that I am knowledgeable about and able to share that knowledge with others. 

To end this blog I want to do something that my sister inspired me to do. Lately it has been hard for me to be positive about what I am doing here and I have been questioning why am I still here? Don't worry this happens from time to time for all volunteers and it helps when you can refocus that energy into something positive. So Kristy wrote a blog a while back about the 20 reasons why she likes her job, so here are my 20 reasons why I enjoy being in the Peace Corps-Philippines. (These are in no particular order) Hope you enjoy! :) 

1. Emersion into a new culture
2. AMAZING fruits such as: mangosteen, mangos, lanzones, rambutan, pineapple, bananas and I might add they are cheap
3. Relaxing on some breathtaking beaches
4. Experiencing remarkable landscapes and have astounding adventures
5. Learning a little bit of a new language
6. I'm able to share my culture with Filipinos and share Filipino culture back home
7. Helping others in small ways
8. I have built some incredible friendships
9. I have been given the opportunity to experience something unique
10. The chance to grow as an individual and as a married couple
11. Learning to live with less (materialistically) 
12. Ability to go with the flow
13. Nagbasa ko daghan mga libro (I get to read a lot)
14. New lifelong PCV friendships
15. Being a part of the Grants Committee
16. Flexibility in my teaching job
17. Traveling to other Asian countries
18. Understanding failures
19. Figuring out my passions and what to do with my future
20. Comprehending how truly blessed I am on so many levels


March Madness

At the beginning of March I headed to Manila to help facilitate a training for the new batch of PCVs. This training was called Project Design Management. Overall the training was great and I think all the facilitators did an amazing job. It was nice to get to meet the new batch and see how they are doing in regards to the Peace Corps life. It was weird hearing their issues and remembering that was what I was thinking a year ago! It's crazy how fast time does fly.



So once I got back to site I felt like I had one million and one things to do. I got home on Tuesday night and on Wed. I had to conduct our last "Reading Club" for the year. That was fun. The students I worked with were so great and I really hope that I get to work with them again next year.



Then that weekend Ryan and I finally got to hold the Healthy Mind and Body Youth Camp that we, mainly Ryan, had been planning since last December. There were a few road bumps at the start, but overall it was an amazing training. We had around 45 out of school youth show up, which was great. We talked about HIV/AIDS, STI's, Nutrition, Gender Awareness, the Reproductive System, and we played a few different sports. It was an overnight camp, so we were able to share the tradition of Smore's with everyone, which they loved! It was a great experience and I'm glad it finally happened :)







Right before the camp Ryan and I had not been feeling so hot, we both had colds, so for the next few days we stayed in bed and got some rest. We though we were sick it was nice to rest for a while.

Then that next weekend we set out again and continued work on our HIV/AIDS grant, by planting close to 300 trees to represent the youth living with HIV in the Philippines. We had about 20 youth show up to help us plat the trees, and we got to meet a few new people. It was a great time getting to know them and spend some time with them, but man it was HOT! We tried to stay in the shade as much as possible, but even so it was a scorcher.




Ryan also decided to get Scuba certified. This has been something he has been thinking about for a while and I'm glad he finally got to do it. He went to a town North of us where they held the training, and on the last day they were going out to this island called Digyo. I was able to join them and see this beautiful island. Ryan had a great time diving (He went down 60ft!!!) and I had fun watching. Then when we arrived back at shore Ryan found out he is pretty famous. Ask him about this, and hopefully he will put this in his blog too. Haha.




Then to wrap March up we had Graduation and the annual Senior trip. Graduation was great. I was so proud of the students. Most of them had worked hard to finish the year and really tried, at least in our class, to learn something new. I was able to help pass out the diplomas this year, which was so fun. It was rewarding for me to be able to tell the students I had worked with Congratulations. I hope it meant something to them too.



Lastly was the Senior trip. So apparently every year the graduating students go to a town South of us to hike this mountain called Hanginon. This year I was invited to join them. We met up at 2 AM, and headed off on our journey. It was so fun hanging out with the students, and all their energy, and seeing Leyte/Southern Leyte from such a beautiful view. The hike was hard, a lot of inclines, but it was fun and I'm so glad I got to join.






Now it's on to April. Until next time. Take care. We love y'all and miss you tons! <3